This post was most recently updated on November 13th, 2020
A proper wish on your girlfriend’s birthday shows how much you love and care for her.
Don’t think of it as a one-sided thing. When you make your girlfriend’s birthday incredible, she will make your birthday amazing in return.
So, if you want your birthday to be excellent, try to make her birthday astonishing first.
Your girlfriend would be expecting a proper birthday wish from you, and it’s your responsibility to meet up to her expectations.
There are so many ways to express your love and appreciation for your girlfriend on her very special day. Here are 9 best and romantic ways for you to wish your girlfriend on her birthday.
Most of the time, your girlfriend won’t remind you that her birthday is coming in a few days. She wants to test whether you remember it or not.
Now, what you have to do is, you have to act as you have totally forgotten about it. Don’t mention it anywhere and don’t talk about her birthday at any cost.
As she is testing you, she also won’t tell you about her birthday.
Meanwhile, deep down inside, she will get furious too.
She will obviously get angry because her boyfriend is acting like nothing is going on. It’s her right to get angry.
But, you know what mate, let her get angry a bit. A little speck of spice in a relationship helps to grow it stronger.
Later on, when you wish her surprisingly, she will appreciate it.
Now, this leads us to our second step. How and when to wish on her birthday?
Try to be her first wisher
Unless you are in a live-in relationship, the probability of you two being together on her birthday is very less.
If she is with her friends or family, then they might wish her first. In that case, it will be kind of tricky for you to be her first wisher.
If she lives alone, then she would expect you to call and wish her first.
Though she lives alone, that doesn’t mean her family and friends won’t call her. So, they would be there in line too. What to do in that case?
Here is the best tip for you and trust me; this always works.
Suppose her birthday is on November 10. What you have to do is, you have to call her at 11:55 pm on November 9.
Talk to her till 12:00 and wish her at the exact moment. In this way, you will be her first wisher, and she would be delighted.
Call her rather than texting
The above tip that I gave you about how to be her first wisher; it usually doesn’t work with texting. Wishing via text isn’t the best way to wish your girlfriend on her birthday.
You might text and wish her before anyone else but, mark my words; texting doesn’t leave much impact as much as the phone call does.
A friend of mine once told me that he doesn’t prefer to call her at 12:00 at night.
And I asked him, why?
His reply was, “She will be sleeping, and I don’t want to disturb her.”
Aww so sweet, isn’t it?
Of course, you care about her very much and don’t want to disturb her.
But, it’s her birthday, man. Trust me. She won’t be sleeping till midnight.
Wishing her at 12:00 is one of the best ways to wish your girlfriend on her birthday. A proper birthday wish is also an alternative of saying I Love You.
Make the wish short and simple
When you wish her, your words should be plain and simple. Don’t think that if you recite a paragraph of 200 words to her, she would be happy.
- Your words should be romantic and clear to understand.
- Keep it short and straightforward.
- Try to be humorous.
- Never use cheesy words.
- Don’t sound like a creep.
Here are some of the birthday wishes you can say along with “Happy Birthday.”
1> Many Many happy returns of the day baby. May all of your dreams come true. May this special day bring joy and happiness in your life. Happy birthday.
2> Happy birthday to the most beautiful girlfriend from the luckiest boyfriend in the world. Your presence makes my life a whole. You complete me.
3> I mightn’t be always there with you, but I will always be there for you. I promise you my birthday girl that I will love you forever. Have a wonderful birthday.
4> You are the best thing that has ever happened to me. Thank you for all the time we have spent together. You are the reason for my success. Many Many happy returns of the day sweetheart.
5> Loving you is a privilege, and being loved by you is a blessing. May we love each other forever like this and stay together for every upcoming birthday. Happy Birthday.
Call her but don’t make it long.
You called her and wished her a sharp 12. You became her first wisher, and that made her very happy.
Now, what do you do? Should you continue talking with her?
The answer is, “No, you shouldn’t.”
Remember what I said before?
Her family and friends will be there in the line too. Let them call her and express their wishes.
As a boyfriend, you should understand and respect her personal space. Say your “goodnight thing” and let her take other calls.
Post birthday wishes on her Facebook timeline
Write a proper post, design a fantastic image, and post it on her Facebook timeline. She would love it.
But, before posting, you should ask her if she is ok with it. Her family members could be there on her Facebook friend list. Your post might create a problem in her family.
Also, if you are posting as a friend, then you shouldn’t worry about anything. Wish her as a friend, and she will totally understand it.
Call her in the morning again
Call her in the morning and ask her how she is feeling. Ask her how many of her friends wished her.
You were her first wisher, but again ask her who wished her first?
She would say, you!
Act surprised, and say, “Really? Was it me? I didn’t know that… ”
Romantically continue your talk. Tell her how you feel. Make her realize that you are always there for her. Meanwhile, ask her out to go on a date.
Take her on a date
Take her on a date to her favorite place. It could be a restaurant, a park, a movie hall, or something else.
As her boyfriend, you should know what she likes and what she doesn’t.
Properly plan for the day and don’t let it get weird. Spend some quality time together and share your feelings.
Buy her a birthday gift
Giving a gift on her birthday isn’t compulsory but, if your girl likes to have some gifts, then you should really give one to her.
The gift doesn’t necessarily have to be expensive or big. If you give her a rose or a silver ring, or a bracelet, then that also should work perfectly fine.
In case you have some money that you can spend, then you can give her something expensive. If you don’t have enough, then gift her something accordingly.
Gift her something that she can always keep with her so that it keeps reminding her of you.
These were the 9 best ways to wish your girlfriend on her birthday. Wishing her birthday isn’t something you get to do on a daily basis like saying good morning or goodnight. So, wish her “Happy Birthday” straight from your heart.
Birthday comes once a year. Make sure you make it worthwhile for her. It’s her day. Let her celebrate.
Keep loving her.